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My Six Month Solo Trip and What It Taught Me

March of 2021, I began my solo trip. I originally planned this trip for 2020, but had to reschedule for 2021 due to COVID. I spent six months on the road. It’s was a great trip, but it taught me a lot more about who I am and it made me realize what I really want. Before I get into that, let me tell you a little about my background so my experience during my solo trip makes sense.

While in the military, I traveled a lot. During my career as CEO of my first company, I traveled a lot. Now, I travel when I need to travel or by my personal choice. How did I get here? From an early age, I wanted to be a CEO. I used to stare off into the distance and think how my life would be as a CEO. I wanted the money, the freedom, and the nice office. I had all of those things. However, the most import thing I’ve gained over the years are the skills and the mindset to be a CEO. Just like most things in life, there will be ups and downs, but I enjoyed my journey and I appreciate what I learned and who I’ve become as a person and CEO.

The top skill to have when running a business is problem solving, you have to be able to think on your feet at all times. Not only are you running the business, but you’re managing and teaching others at the same time. Anything could go wrong at anytime.

Another important skill to have is resilience. Things are not always going to work out, so when things fail, you’ll need to figure out away to get things back on track.

During my solo trip I visited old friends and family members I haven’t seen in awhile. While in those cities, I visited old spots I used to love while living or visiting there before. I visited the following cities:

Chicago, IL

New Jersey

Washington D.C

Atlanta, GA

Pelzer, SC

Miami, Florida

I traveled by car, train, and plane. I traveled during the day and at night. It was a lot of fun, but here is what I learned from revisiting people and places. Sometimes when you’re meant to go to a certain level that’s only meant for you, it’s not meant for everyone to understand. It’s not meant for everyone to go with you either. I discovered that my mindset had changed completely. So much so, that I couldn’t relate to a lot of people anymore. Everything had changed. It’s was a great moment for me. The lesson here is to stop letting people back into your life that’s not meant to be there. Continue to move forward without looking back.

Chicago, IL – I used to live in Chicago. I opened an office here for my first company, Direct Consultants, LLC.

New Jersey – A two-day camping trip at Mahlon Dickerson County Reservation.

Washington, D.C. – A two day train ride to Atlanta, GA

Atlanta, GA – I got the chance to party and catch up with old friends. I relaxed a lot in Atlanta.

Charlotte, NC – I celebrated my 32nd birthday. There was a lot of dancing and tequila.

Pelzer, SC – My hometown. I visited family and childhood friends.

Miami, FL – I invited my brother on this trip. We drank early in the morning and spent a lot of time at the beach.

How did traveling for six months change my perspective. I learned that no matter where you travel or live, you’ll always experience the same things and the same people. This is why you should always decide to move and travel for a new experience. Learn something new. Meet new people. Try something new, from an experience to a new food or drink. It also showed me what I really want in life and that is stability. Anything that comes before is there to help get the stability or after when things are drawn to you based on where you are in life.

What are some of the activities I did while traveling to each state:

Chicago: I paid $100 for a steak dinner. It was worth it. I also got my teeth cleaned.

New Jersey- I camped at a camping ground for two days. I hiked through the mountains most of the time.

Washington: I shopped at a train station for the first time.

Atlanta: I went to my first seafood boil.

Charlotte: I took personal training classes.

Pelzer: I slept outside in my hammock.

Miami: I stayed at a airport hotel for the first time and I was able to begin drinking mimosas at 9 a.m. at a restaurant.

I planned this trip for over a year, but I had the idea for several years. The one thing I loved about the military was the traveling. We were aways on the go. I’m that type of person. But, this time I got to do it on my own. I was so excited about this experience and still am. Now, I’m back in New York. I’m so ready for what’s next. For the countries I didn’t get a chance to visit this time, my next solo trip will be different countries ONLY.

My next blog post will explain how I was able to manage traveling for six months while running my company, MJI. I’ll discuss what I accomplished with my company in just six months.

Guide Book to Living Your Best Life; Cool, Crazy, and Fun Things to Do in a Lifetime

*This list will be updated daily

♥♥ = I’ve completed

Now, that I have reached my thirties, my goal is to try as many new things and have fun while doing so. I’ve always been adventurous. I love trying new things. While in my twenties, I explored many new things while traveling and building my career. After turning thirty, I realized that I am blessed with a career, my own money, great friends, and people who support and love me. I have the ability to do what I want, when I want and you should too.

“It’s never too late to enjoy your life.” – Joyce Meyer

Here are cool, crazy, and fun things to do in a lifetime:

Entertainment

  1. Audition for a movie or commercial♥♥
  2. Become a model♥♥
  3. Become a singer
  4. Become a photographer
  5. Become a rapper
  6. Start a podcast
  7. Take dance classes
  8. Take acting classes♥♥
  9. Dance in a music video or stage play
  10. Write, record, and produce a song, movie, or screenplay
  11. Be on TV♥♥
  12. Shoot behind-the-scenes of your life, career, or lifestyle♥♥
  13. Sing in a Broadway play or musical
  14. Write a book and host a book release party♥♥
  15. Create a digital magazine ♥♥
  16. Become a comedian
  17. Become an actor♥♥
  18. Become an Instagram model
  19. Become a spoken word artist
  20. Become a poet
  21. Walk on the runway♥♥
  22. Play an instrument live♥♥
  23. Start a band
  24. Start a music group
  25. Start a digital TV series ♥♥
  26. Start a digital talk show
  27. Become a street performer
  28. Become a stripper
  29. Become a dancer♥♥
  30. Become a twerking expert
  31. Be published in a magazine♥♥
  32. Be featured♥♥
  33. Create a logo for your brand ♥♥
  34. Become a motivational speaker♥♥
  35. Become a contestant on a game show
  36. Become famous on TikTok.
  37. Go viral
  38. Have a virtual bday party♥♥
  39. Go live on Facebook♥♥
  40. Go live on Instagram♥♥
  41. Be on the cover of a magazine
  42. Start your own TV show
  43. Binge watch a reality TV show

Food and Drink Ideas

  1. Order everything off the menu at your favorite restaurant
  2. Cook a full course meal♥♥
  3. Eat something raw♥♥
  4. Hunt, skin, cook, and eat a meal of your choice
  5. Make a cake from scratch ♥♥
  6. Make fondue
  7. Have dinner at a rooftop restaurant ♥♥
  8. Take a flaming shot ♥♥
  9. Go on a romantic date at an expensive restaurant
  10. Eat fresh Caviar ♥♥
  11. Order the most expensive bottle of wine on the menu ♥♥
  12. Eat at a five star restaurant♥♥
  13. Attend a grand opening of a restaurant♥♥
  14. Eat at one of the Michelin 3-star Restaurant
  15. Eat a meal cooked by a celebrity chef ♥♥
  16. Eat at a Hibachi restaurant♥♥
  17. Attend a grand opening of a bar♥♥
  18. Attend a grand opening of a bakery♥♥
  19. Attend a grand opening of a coffee shop♥♥
  20. Eat Raw Blue Caviar ♥♥
  21. Eat rotisserie deer meat♥♥
  22. Eat deep friend rabbit ♥♥
  23. Eat friend green tomatoes at Fried Green Tomato Restaurant ♥♥
  24. Eat rotisserie pork♥♥
  25. Eat sweet bug candy in Las Vegas♥♥
  26. Order room service♥♥
  27. Eat hot wings at the Hooters Hotel in Las Vegas ♥♥
  28. Host a dinner party♥♥
  29. Bartend at a party
  30. Eat fried mac and cheese balls♥♥
  31. Eat deep fried vienna sausages
  32. Eat at the International Smoke House owned by Ayesha Curry(SF, Del Mar, or Las Vegas)
  33. Make a homemade sofrito sauce
  34. Make homemade buffalo chicken dip
  35. Make a homemade green bean casserole
  36. Make homemade macaroni and cheese ♥♥
  37. Host taco night ♥♥
  38. Make a homemade squash casserole
  39. Make a strawberry pie♥♥
  40. Make a chilled Oreo pie ♥♥
  41. Host a BBQ ♥♥
  42. Make a variety of kabobs
  43. Host Thanksgiving dinner
  44. Go to brunch♥♥
  45. Host Christmas dinner
  46. Drink a jalapeno margarita ♥♥
  47. Drink or make whipped coffee ♥♥
  48. Make chicken burgers
  49. Have a seafood party
  50. Host taco Tuesday
  51. Make stuffed bell peppers♥♥
  52. Eat lamb ♥♥
  53. Make zucchini bread
  54. Make banana bread ♥♥
  55. Make homemade pizza
  56. Make homemade potato chips
  57. Make Henny wings
  58. Make hamburger dip ♥♥
  59. Make homemade rice crispy treats
  60. Raspberry and champagne soup
  61. Make Pot baked steak ♥♥
  62. Make deep fried crab
  63. Make deep fried stuffed jalapenos
  64. Make stuffed lettuce
  65. Make crab biscuits
  66. Make deep fried bacon
  67. Make cucumber sandwiches ♥♥
  68. Make an avocado sandwich
  69. Try Fermented Greenland Shark in Iceland
  70. Make fried ribs
  71. Make honey glazed fried chicken ♥♥
  72. Try grilled fish head ♥♥
  73. Make taco casserole
  74. Try sweet potato cupcakes
  75. Set up a charcuterie board or table♥♥
  76. Make homemade ice cream
  77. Try fried ice cream
  78. Try steak and cheese egg rolls. ♥♥
  79. Eat at Bubba Gump Shrimp in New York, New York
  80. Eat dinner at the Eiffel Tower Restaurant in Las Vegas, Nevada ♥♥
  81. Try mustard chicken ♥♥
  82. Try a turkey and apple sandwich
  83. Try cheese curds ♥♥
  84. Visit a tea room ♥♥
  85. Learn how to smoke brisket
  86. Try Aloe Vera juice ♥♥
  87. Do a one-year grocery haul
  88. Try deep fried ravioli
  89. Wine glass cake cutting
  90. Try alcohol infused ice cream ♥♥
  91. Order the Filet Mignon at Bonefish Grill in Concord, NC
  92. Grow your own food
  93. Cook a rack of lamb
  94. Eat Shark
  95. Eat something 100% raw♥♥
  96. Have dinner in the sky
  97. Have a Progressive Dinner at all your favorite restaurants
  98. Host a fancy tea party

Adventurous Outdoor and Indoor Activities

  1. Swim with sharks
  2. Swim with dolphins
  3. Go scuba diving
  4. Go skating ♥♥
  5. Go sky diving
  6. Go snorkeling
  7. Visit an underwater hotel
  8. Swim in an infinity pool
  9. Travel to each Continent at least once
  10. Visit every state
  11. Go zorbing
  12. Fly first class
  13. Shower outside♥♥
  14. Go snowboarding
  15. Go skiing
  16. Go jet skiing
  17. Visit a nude beach
  18. Take a month long trip in another country
  19. Go white water rafting
  20. Go zip lining
  21. Relax in a hot springs
  22. Ride a horse on the beach
  23. Ride an elephant
  24. Feed monkeys♥♥
  25. Visit a vineyard for a weekend
  26. Go deep sea fishing
  27. Visit a farm and pick fresh fruit and vegetables
  28. Hike a popular mountain♥♥
  29. Go camping in the mountains♥♥
  30. Take a road trip across the country with a friend♥♥
  31. Go on a cruise for a week or month
  32. Pet a stingray ♥♥
  33. Play with a snake
  34. Let a spider crawl on you
  35. Run with the pigs
  36. Jump off a cliff
  37. Jump off a boat
  38. Go fishing for catfish, then cook it yourself ♥♥
  39. Go on a vacation with your family for a week♥♥
  40. Participate in a mud run
  41. Go to a carnival ♥♥
  42. Ride a train to another city ♥♥
  43. Ride in a hot air balloon
  44. Ride a segway in the city
  45. Inside skydiving
  46. Go to a paint party rave
  47. Shoot paintball guns
  48. Shoot a bow and arrow
  49. Go rope swinging into a lake
  50. Watch a movie outdoors ♥♥
  51. Swim in all major oceans
  52. Skip rocks on a lake ♥♥
  53. Go kayaking
  54. Go surfing
  55. Sail on a boat
  56. Visit a national rain forest ♥♥
  57. Party on a boat in Miami
  58. Go hunting
  59. Go to a shooting range ♥♥
  60. Go golfing at Top Golf ♥♥
  61. Go whale watching
  62. Go sun bathing ♥♥
  63. Learn to say hello in different languages ♥♥
  64. Fly a kite ♥♥
  65. Ride an ATV♥♥
  66. Walk underneath a waterfall ♥♥
  67. Touch stingrays♥♥
  68. Touch a star fish ♥♥
  69. Walk on a suspension bridge ♥♥
  70. Visit an active volcano
  71. Ride a fake rodeo
  72. Hike a trail at a state park♥♥
  73. Have an adult potato sack competition ♥♥
  74. Play adult dodge ball♥♥
  75. Make a snowman♥♥
  76. Milk a cow
  77. Dance in the rain ♥♥
  78. Mediate in an open field♥♥
  79. Run in a turkey run
  80. Run in Santa run
  81. Sleep in a cabin
  82. Spend the weekend at a beach house♥♥
  83. Swim in the ocean♥♥
  84. Swim with sea turtles
  85. Visit a zoo♥♥
  86. Visit an aquarium♥♥
  87. Go to the circus
  88. Go to a hologram show
  89. Go to a live show in Las Vegas ♥♥
  90. Roast marsh mellows over a bonfire ♥♥
  91. Run barefoot in the sand ♥♥
  92. Witness a full moon♥♥
  93. Witness a solar eclipse
  94. Watch the sunrise and sunset ♥♥
  95. Watch a caterpillar turn into a butterfly♥♥
  96. Spend New Years in another country♥♥
  97. Stay in a five star hotel♥♥
  98. Have a picnic in the park♥♥
  99. Go sightseeing in your favorite city♥♥
  100. Attend a Broadway show ♥♥
  101. Take a gondola lift up a mountain♥♥
  102. Attend a dog show
  103. Get hypnotized ♥♥
  104. Feed horses on a farm
  105. Feed cows on a farm
  106. Feed chickens on a farm
  107. Feed pigs on a farm
  108. Fall asleep to rainfall♥♥
  109. Read a book by the fireplace ♥♥
  110. Watch a movie on a projector ♥♥
  111. Camp in your backyard
  112. Decorate your house every holiday season
  113. Run an obstacle course ♥♥
  114. Ride a water jet pack
  115. Start a garden ♥♥
  116. Play adult kickball ♥♥
  117. Play adult dodgeball ♥♥
  118. Play tag football♥♥
  119. Swim in a heated indoor swimming pool♥♥
  120. Swim in a lazy river♥♥
  121. Host game night at home♥♥
  122. Throw a BYOE party
  123. Host a welcome to the neighborhood dinner for your new neighbors
  124. Go bowling ♥♥
  125. Hit baseballs with a bat in your backyard
  126. Host a minute to win it party
  127. Spend a Saturday at garage and yard sales♥♥
  128. Host a garage or yard sale♥♥
  129. Chill in the jacuzzi or pool with wine or beer♥♥
  130. Go antiquing♥♥
  131. Go axe throwing
  132. Play Rummy♥♥
  133. Play Spades ♥♥
  134. Go cave diving
  135. Play a game of chess♥♥
  136. Play pool♥♥
  137. Play egg roulette
  138. Try the egg challenge
  139. Sleep on the beach ♥♥
  140. Attend a giant ship launch
  141. Attend a demolition
  142. Visit a cowboy ranch
  143. Visit the farmer’s market ♥♥
  144. Take a virtual cooking class.
  145. Go bird watching
  146. Visit a lighthouse
  147. Go to a drive-in movie
  148. Host a virtual happy hour ♥♥
  149. Attend murder mystery dinner ♥♥
  150. Visit a bathhouse
  151. Go to an escape room
  152. Do an Ironman
  153. Go paragliding
  154. Go hand gliding
  155. Go parashooting
  156. Go four wheeling
  157. Try candle making
  158. Try soap making
  159. Go water skiing
  160. Go putting
  161. Go on a scavenger hunt using a compass ♥♥
  162. Ride a horse and carriage in the city
  163. Try Archery
  164. Go camping in the snow
  165. Completed a large puzzle
  166. Go paddle boarding
  167. Host a themed dinner party indoors and outdoors
  168. Host a pool party
  169. Go horseback riding
  170. Swing on a trapeze
  171. Sleep in an igloo
  172. Build something ♥♥
  173. Have a solo picnic ♥♥
  174. Try a DIY project ♥♥

Main Attraction Travel Ideas

  1. Ride the subway in Manhattan, New York City♥♥
  2. Visit the Great Barrier Reef in Queensland Mainland, Australia
  3. See the Northern Lights in Watson Lake, YT, Canada
  4. Visit the Family Kingdom Amusement Park in Myrtle Beach, SC♥♥
  5. Feed reindeer in Mayajima, Japan♥♥
  6. Visit the M&M World, Candy Store in New York City♥♥
  7. Spend the weekend in the East or South Hampton’s♥♥
  8. Go to the amusement park on Coney Island Brookly, NY♥♥
  9. Go listen to a live band at the Hard Rock Cafe in Myrtle Beach, SC♥♥
  10. Attend a Dragon Festival in Mayajima, Japan♥♥
  11. Visit the Cherry Blossom Festival in Iwakuni, Japan♥♥
  12. Take a cruise around Toronto, Canada♥♥
  13. Walk the Brooklyn Bridge in New York
  14. Climb Stone Mountain in Atlanta, Georgia♥♥
  15. Ride the New York Hotel roller coaster in Las Vegas, Nevada.♥♥
  16. Visit the Empire State Building in New York City♥♥
  17. Climb Crowders Mountain in Kings Mountain, NC♥♥
  18. Visit the Tokyo Tower in Tokyo, Japan♥♥
  19. Go private karaoking in Roppongi Strip in Tokyo, Japan ♥♥
  20. Attend the Criss Angel MINDFREAK magic show in Las Vegas, Nevada♥♥
  21. Eat at the Pier 14 Restaurant & Lounge in Myrtle Beach, SC♥♥
  22. St. Patrick’s Day Bar Crawl in Charlotte, NC♥♥
  23. CIAA in Charlotte, NC♥♥
  24. All Star Weekend (location varies)♥♥
  25. Visit the Pentagon in Washington, DC♥♥
  26. Visit the Citadel in Charleston, SC ♥♥
  27. Visit Ground Zero in New York♥♥
  28. Go to a UFC fight at the MGM in Las Vegas, Nevada
  29. Go to a boxing match at the MGM in Las Vegas, Nevada
  30. Attend the Jazz in the Garden Festival in Miami, Florida♥♥
  31. Attend the Essence Festival in New Orleans
  32. Attend Mardi Gras in New Orleans
  33. Take a photo on the red steps in Times Square, NYC♥♥
  34. Attend a spoken word event in Atlanta, GA♥♥
  35. Climb Mount Fuji in Honshū, Japan
  36. Visit the Miyajima Public Aquarium in Mayajima, Japan♥♥
  37. Visit Times Square in New York♥♥
  38. Stay in The Soho 5 Hotel in Soho, NYC♥♥
  39. Ride the bullet train in Iwakuni, Japan♥♥
  40. Visit the Epic Center in Uptown Charlotte in Charlotte, NC♥♥
  41. Attend the Black Food Truck Festival in Charlotte, NC ♥♥
  42. Feed monkeys in Otaki Japan ♥♥
  43. Each dinner at the Reunion tower Dallas, Texas
  44. Go night dancing at the Skovorodka restaurant in Brooklyn, NY♥♥
  45. Visit Peace Park in Hiroshima, Japan ♥♥
  46. Shop at Hiroshima Hon Dori Shotengai, Downtown Hiroshima, Japan ♥♥
  47. Bike Bar in Charlotte, NC: Trolley Pub Charlotte
  48. Day trip through Hartford, Bridgeport, New Haven, and Somer Connecticut♥♥
  49. Walk the South Beach Strip in Miami Beach Florida♥♥
  50. Hike the Great Wall of China in Beijing, China
  51. Trinidad and Tobago Carnival in in Port of Spain, Trinidad and Tobago
  52. Shop at the South Loop Roosevelt in Downtown Chicago♥♥
  53. Attend a Broadway show at Furman university♥♥
  54. Attend a Broadway show at the Greenville Theatre in Greenville, SC♥♥
  55. Visit Falls Park in Greenville, SC ♥♥
  56. Have drinks at the W XYZ Bar at the Aloft Greenville Hotel in Greenville, SC
  57. Islands of Honolulu, Hawaii♥♥
  58. Site seeing in Hollywood in Los Angeles, California
  59. Stay in the Omni Hotel in Uptown Charlotte in Charlotte, NC ♥♥
  60. Attend Coachella
  61. Visit the Sahara Desert in South Africa
  62. See the Sea of the Stars in Maldives
  63. Visit the Pink Sand Beach in the Bahamas
  64. Attend the Rio Carnival in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil
  65. Ride in a helicopter over the Grand Canyon
  66. Visit the 8 Wonders of the World
  67. Take a trip to downtown Charleston
  68. Visit Central Park in Manhattan, NY♥♥
  69. Visit the Great Barrier Reef in Australia
  70. Go skiing in the Swiss Alps in Switzerland
  71. Visit McWay Falls in Carmel, California
  72. Visit the U.S.S. North Carolina in Wilmington, NC♥♥
  73. Visit Topsail Island in North Topsail Beach, North Carolina ♥♥
  74. Visit Onslow beach in Jacksonville, NC♥♥
  75. Eat at The Pilot House Restaurant in Wilmington, NC ♥♥
  76. Spend New Years in New York City
  77. Treasure hunt at Brooklyn Flea in New York
  78. Visit every US National Park
  79. Visit the Belvedere Castle in Central Park in New York ♥♥
  80. Go to a concert at The Fillmore Charlotte in Charlotte, NC
  81. Go to the St. Patrick’s Day parade in Chicago and see the Chicago River turn green.
  82. Ice fishing huts in Saguenay-Lac-Saint-Jean, Canada
  83. Go snorkeling in Tangalooma Wrecks, Moreton Island
  84. Ride over the Golden State Bridge in San Francisco, California ♥♥
  85. Visit the Rakotzbrücke bridge in Germany’s Kromlauer Park
  86. Visit the Space Needle in Seattle, Washington
  87. Visit Yoho National Park in British Columbia, Canada
  88. Visit Dubai Miracle Garden in Dubai
  89. Go to brunch at Ink N Ivy in Uptown Charlotte ♥♥
  90. Go for dinner and wine at Merchant and Trade in the Kimpton Tryon Park Hotel in Uptown Charlotte ♥♥
  91. Ride a cable car in San Francisco, CA♥♥
  92. Visit the Navy Pier, Fun Fair, Michigan Lake in Chicago
  93. Visit Bodies, The Exhibition in New York♥♥
  94. Visit the Red Beach of Hormuz Island in Iran
  95. Visit Giraffe Manor in Nairobi, Kenya
  96. Fly first class out of Franksfront/ Munic airport
  97. Visit Hotel Village Montana, France
  98. Visit Gorgeous Lodge Hotel In Samburu National Reserve, Kenya
  99. Tour the Sunrise Ballon Safari in Tanzania
  100. Visit the Magnolia Market in Waco, Texas
  101. Attend a boat-in concert in NYC
  102. Spend a week in Maldives
  103. Go on a Safari in Africa
  104. Go on a ski trip in Aspen
  105. Stay at the wall-less hotel in the Swiss Alps
  106. Swim with humpback whales in Tonga
  107. Visit the Yosemite National Park
  108. Ride the High Roller in Las Vegas, Nevada.
  109. Ride the SlotZilla zipline in downtown Las Vegas.
  110. Try the Black dining in the Dark in Las Vegas, Nevada
  111. Take a helicopter ride to the Grand Canyon while visiting Nevada
  112. Go rafting in the Colorado River in Nevada
  113. Sail the Hudson River in Manhattan (Sail Sunset)
  114. Go swimming on the rooftop of the Mr. Purple in NYC
  115. Try the bed and breakfast on water on Sag Harbor, New York
  116. Visit the Eiffel Tower in Paris, France
  117. Swing on a popular swing in Bali, Indonesia.
  118. Swim in an infinity pool (location varies)
  119. Try the boat-in movie series in New York, New York.
  120. Try the boat-in concert in New York, New York
  121. Visit Mt. Rushmor in Keystone, South Dakota
  122. Swing on the water swing in New York
  123. Visit the Baltimore aquarium
  124. Visit Olympic Park in Utah
  125. Go moose sighting in Canada
  126. Do a Berlin tour of Hitler in Europe
  127. Ride the Gondola in San Francisco, CA
  128. Visit the Bronx Zoo ♥♥
  129. Drive across the George Washington Bridge♥♥
  130. Drive or walk across the Brooklyn Bridge♥♥
  131. Visit the Hudson River♥♥
  132. Take a day trip to Hoboken, NJ ♥♥
  133. Go dog sledding in Alaska
  134. Celebrate Chinese New Year in China
  135. Spend a weekend at the Renaissance New York Chelsea Hotel in NYC ♥♥
  136. Take a picture in from of the “I Love NY” sign at the LaGuardia Airport in Queens, NY ♥♥
  137. Visit the Harvard University campus in Cambridge, MA
  138. Visit Lookout Mountain in Northern Alabama
  139. Bear watch in Alaska
  140. Attend Oktobefest in Germany
  141. Watch the crabs migrate on Christmas Island in Australia
  142. Attend the ICFF in New York
  143. Visit the Museum of Ice Cream in New York
  144. Go ice skating in Central Park
  145. Go snow tubing at Mountain Creek in New Jersey
  146. Visit The Hudson Yards in New York City ♥♥
  147. Stand on the glass balcony of the Willis Tower in Chicago, IL
  148. Swim in the largest swimming pool in Chile
  149. Stay in an underwater hotel in Dubai
  150. Sit on the edge of Trolltunga cliff in Norway
  151. Visit Maldives
  152. Stay in a glass igloo in Finland
  153. Ski at the Swiss Alps
  154. Attend the carnival in Rio
  155. Experience the hot air ballon ride in Turkey
  156. Visit Reflection of the Moonlight across Mountains
  157. Travel the road through Death Valley
  158. Visit the white cliff of Iturup Island
  159. Visit St. John’s NEWFOUNDLAND in Canada
  160. Visit the White Water Center in Charlotte, NC
  161. Stay at the Soho 54 Hotel in Soho Hotel ♥♥
  162. Visit the SJP store in New York, NY
  163. Visit the Hudson River in New York ♥♥
  164. Visit the underground on Atlanta, GA

Career and Lifestyle Goals

  1. Live in a high rise building
  2. Save $1,000,000 before age 40
  3. Become a millionaire
  4. Start a business♥♥
  5. Own property♥♥
  6. Live in a penthouse
  7. Buy and own land♥♥
  8. Buy your dream car♥♥
  9. Buy your dream home♥♥
  10. Invest in an idea♥♥
  11. Vote ♥♥
  12. Get out of debt♥♥
  13. Buy yourself something expensive♥♥
  14. Hang out with a successful person in your field. ♥♥
  15. Negotiate a pay raise♥♥
  16. Teach online or at a college♥♥
  17. Get certified in something♥♥
  18. Rent property
  19. Own a few expensive things to leave with your children or grandchildren♥♥
  20. Travel to your favorite destinations ♥♥
  21. Throw yourself a lavish birthday party

Random Acts of Kindness

  1. Pay for someone’s meal
  2. Do something nice for someone without asking
  3. Help a homeless person
  4. Babysit for a friend or family member
  5. Send an anonymous gift
  6. Tell someone something positive
  7. Ask a person how they are
  8. Call someone to check on them
  9. Give a stranger a compliment

Self-Care

  1. Take yourself on a shopping spree in another city or country♥♥
  2. Listen to your favorite book on Audible.♥♥
  3. Own a pet ♥♥
  4. Buy something really expensive that you’ll never use
  5. Get a vaginal steam ♥♥
  6. Have your dream body♥♥
  7. Get a body wrap at your spa ♥♥
  8. Get a 60 minute hot stone massage ♥♥
  9. Start or join a book club ♥♥
  10. Get your teeth professionally cleaned♥♥
  11. Own a few expensive things to leave in your will♥♥
  12. Try weave and wigs♥♥
  13. Go on a solo trip ♥♥
  14. Get a chemical peel♥♥
  15. Go to a seminar♥♥
  16. Experience faith ♥♥
  17. Join a gym♥♥
  18. Journal♥♥
  19. Meditate daily♥♥
  20. Read something everyday♥♥
  21. Pray often♥♥
  22. Inspire someone♥♥
  23. Tell your life story♥♥
  24. Learn to not care so much♥♥
  25. Learn to say NO♥♥
  26. Learn to say YES♥♥
  27. Tell a secret♥♥
  28. Get a mentor♥♥
  29. Talk to a therapist♥♥
  30. Become a mentor ♥♥
  31. Go to the movies alone ♥♥
  32. Take yourself out for dinner and wine ♥♥
  33. Spend a weekend in and do nothing♥♥
  34. Organize your place♥♥
  35. Go 24hrs without social media ♥♥
  36. Have a drunken night ♥♥
  37. Go to bed nude with rose petals and a glass of wine ♥♥
  38. Take a long bath with a glass of wine and your favorite book♥♥
  39. Forgive ♥♥
  40. Forget♥♥
  41. Try to understand someone fully♥♥
  42. Accept people for who they are♥♥
  43. Learn to be alone ♥♥
  44. Write down your goals and review them daily ♥♥
  45. Do a weekend stay cation♥♥
  46. Spurge on something you like at least once♥♥
  47. Get a 60 minute full body stretch from Stretchlab
  48. Try body sculpting
  49. Get permanent hair removal
  50. Take a trip with friends♥♥
  51. Study a new topic monthly♥♥
  52. Read a new book every month♥♥
  53. Spend the entire day reading a book ♥♥
  54. Create a permanent workout plan for your body type ♥♥
  55. Try something new everyday♥♥
  56. Become one with nature♥♥
  57. Celebrate your birthday in another country.♥♥
  58. Read daily ♥♥
  59. Plant a tree in your yard that will grow for a lifetime.
  60. Become a guide parent ♥♥
  61. Become a morning person.
  62. Donate to charity♥♥
  63. Volunteer ♥♥
  64. Live off grid
  65. Become an organ donor ♥♥
  66. Get a will ♥♥
  67. Get insurance ♥♥
  68. Overcome a fear
  69. Take a risk ♥♥
  70. Start a blog or write a book about your life♥♥
  71. Get a vajacial
  72. Intimate bleaching
  73. Drink warm water. Adding a lemon is optional
  74. Go without makeup
  75. Create a time capsule with your favorite things
  76. Apply a hair mask once a month
  77. Detox your skin
  78. Try mouth yoga

Hobbies

  1. Learn a second language♥♥
  2. Collect vintage art♥♥
  3. Learn to draw♥♥
  4. Learn to paint♥♥
  5. Learn bartending
  6. Learn to play an instrument♥♥
  7. Learn to use a camera♥♥
  8. Start a garden♥♥
  9. Collect coins
  10. Collect international money♥♥
  11. Learn to skateboard
  12. Learn to ice skate
  13. Learn to skate ♥♥
  14. Learn to ski
  15. Learn to fly a plane or helicopter
  16. Body building ♥♥
  17. Learn to ride a motorcycle
  18. DYI projects ♥♥
  19. Learn to tattoo
  20. Create your own self care line (Ex. Soaps, perfumes, candles)
  21. Learn to drive a boat
  22. Travel♥♥
  23. Exercising♥♥
  24. Learn to surf
  25. Learn to play a sport♥♥
  26. Learn to rock climb
  27. Learn to sew♥♥
  28. Aromatherapy ♥♥
  29. Learn cycling
  30. Learn yoga ♥♥
  31. Learn Pilates♥♥
  32. Start a blog♥♥
  33. Learn calligraphy
  34. Become a researcher♥♥
  35. Become a gamer
  36. Become a natural hair enthusiast♥♥
  37. Become a skincare expert ♥♥
  38. Become a scrap book pro
  39. Become an astrology enthusiast
  40. Learn pottery
  41. Learn welding
  42. Write poetry♥♥
  43. Write short stories
  44. Become a home improvement expert
  45. Learn to cook♥♥
  46. Learn to bake♥♥
  47. Collect books♥♥
  48. Learn how to bowl♥♥
  49. Learn how to play pool♥♥
  50. Learn to swim♥♥
  51. Become a wine enthusiast
  52. Learn crafting ♥♥
  53. Learn how to DJ
  54. Learn how to fix electronics
  55. Learn how to brew your own beer
  56. Learn how to roast your own coffee
  57. Become an expert in sales♥♥
  58. Learn how to fix cars
  59. Learn to make your own wine
  60. Learn how to fly a drone ♥♥
  61. Open a restaurant
  62. Open a bar
  63. Open a coffee shop
  64. Create a website♥♥
  65. Open a pizza parlor
  66. Make door reefs for the holidays
  67. Make Easter baskets
  68. Become a travel expert
  69. Learn to knit ♥♥
  70. Backpacking
  71. Learn how to do pottery

Health

  1. Try a cabbage soup diet
  2. Get 8 hours of sleep ♥♥
  3. Try naked yoga for a body and skin detox
  4. Eat oranges before going to bed to lose belly fat♥♥
  5. Eat breakfast in the morning for a more energetic and proactive mind♥♥
  6. Stretching the body lengthens the body♥♥
  7. Drink 8 glasses or more water a day a day to help detox the bottle and to help lose weight♥♥
  8. Take essential vitamins daily♥♥
  9. Eating carrots helps improve eyesight ♥♥
  10. Exercise helps improve body and skin health. It also helps with maintaining your weight. It helps to balance the mind.♥♥
  11. Get regular facials♥♥
  12. A glass of red wine a day helps maintain heart health.♥♥
  13. Our skin renews itself every 27 days.♥♥
  14. Go vegan
  15. Try the kale diet
  16. Become a vegetarian
  17. Go meatless for a month
  18. Detox every 90 days♥♥
  19. Eat a piece of fruit and vegetable each day♥♥
  20. Get a holistic nasal treatment
  21. Get a microdermabrasion treatment ♥♥
  22. Get a full body stretch every three months♥♥
  23. Visit your doctor regularly ♥♥
  24. Visit your dermatologist ♥♥
  25. Detox in a sauna 3-4 times a week
  26. Try cognitive therapy. Helps with reprogramming the subconscious. ♥♥
  27. Try neurolinguistic programing (therapy)
  28. Eating fish enhances the mind♥♥
  29. Try reflexology♥♥
  30. Try aromatherapy♥♥
  31. Cucumbers help with the appearance of dark circles ♥♥
  32. Vitamin E is very essential to the skin ♥♥
  33. Apple cider vinegar helps get rid of dandruff ♥♥
  34. Aloe vera helps to grow your hair and keeps it shiny♥♥
  35. Deep condition your hair once a month ♥♥
  36. Apple cider vinegar helps with losing weight♥♥
  37. Try oil pulling ♥♥

Couple Ideas

  1. Try a long distance relationship♥♥
  2. Get married
  3. Be someone’s WCW on social media♥♥
  4. Live with someone♥♥
  5. Have or adopt a baby
  6. Go on a baecay ♥♥
  7. Date outside your race♥♥
  8. Date someone from another country♥♥
  9. Do a family photoshoot ♥♥
  10. Go on a date with someone who isn’t your type ♥♥
  11. Go on a blind date
  12. Go on a double date ♥♥
  13. Play match maker ♥♥
  14. Visit your family back home ♥♥
  15. Give your lover a lap dance ♥♥
  16. Write your partner a poem or love note♥♥
  17. Sing someone a love song
  18. Get over a heart break ♥♥
  19. Have flowers delivered to yourself
  20. Send edible arrangements to someone special
  21. Walk on the beach at night with your partner♥♥
  22. Ask the opposite sex out♥♥
  23. Stay in bed all day
  24. Have sex on the beach
  25. Experiment with sex toys
  26. Add a stripper pole to the bedroom
  27. Have sex in random places ♥♥
  28. Role play
  29. Create a memory book♥♥
  30. Have virtual sex ♥♥
  31. Live together
  32. Learn something together
  33. Travel together ♥♥
  34. Have a threesome
  35. Go on a double date ♥♥

Pastimes

  1. Reconnect with old friends♥♥
  2. Look through your memory box♥♥
  3. Binge watch an old show from your childhood
  4. Organize things based on the country where you purchased it
  5. Review your life goals ♥♥
  6. Create new memories ♥♥
  7. Add things to your bucket list♥♥
  8. Restore things in your home
  9. Read the origins of things
  10. Try to break an old habit ♥♥
  11. Update your resume ♥♥
  12. Learn your family history ♥♥
  13. Learn about your heritage ♥♥
  14. Learn your DNA ♥♥
  15. Recreate your favorite meals ♥♥
  16. Recreate your favorite drinks
  17. Learn the name of things ♥♥
  18. Reread your favorite books♥♥
  19. Watch the movies of your favorite book ♥♥
  20. Create a list of things you would like to try before a certain age ♥♥
  21. List to your favorite songs ♥♥
  22. Know your currently health status ♥♥
  23. Do the things you’ve put off for awhile ♥♥
  24. Plan your next getaway ♥♥
  25. Find a creative way to collage your memories ♥♥
  26. Organize the photos and videos in your phone ♥♥
  27. Learn proper etiquette ♥♥
  28. Get to know your neighborhood

Random Fun

  1. Party with your favorite celebrities♥♥
  2. Go skinny dipping
  3. Be on a reality TV show
  4. Become famous
  5. Lazer tag with friends♥♥
  6. Movie hop♥♥
  7. See your favorite band or music artist play live
  8. Have a threesome
  9. Talk to psychic
  10. Join the mile high club
  11. Go streaking ♥♥
  12. Get a tattoo or piercing ♥♥
  13. Party in VIP♥♥
  14. Go karaoking in another country ♥♥
  15. Write your name on something in a place you’ll never visit again♥♥
  16. Participate in an online challenge ♥♥
  17. Ride on an electric scooter drunk♥♥
  18. Go viral
  19. Pose nude or have yourself drawn nude♥♥
  20. Ask a celebrity to be your date
  21. Sit court side at a sporting event ♥♥
  22. Perform live ♥♥
  23. Adopt a pet
  24. Go to a pride parade♥♥
  25. Have a one night stand
  26. Play spades for money♥♥
  27. Throw yourself a themed birthday party♥♥
  28. Teach someone to drive
  29. Party at a gay bar♥♥
  30. Watch porn ♥♥
  31. Hang out with someone from work ♥♥
  32. Smoke weed ♥♥
  33. Rent a luxury car and drive around the city
  34. Go window shopping♥♥
  35. Sit in a press box at professional game ♥♥
  36. Get front row tickets to a concert or event ♥♥
  37. Walk the red carpet ♥♥
  38. Make something you would wear or use♥♥
  39. Attend an all white event♥♥
  40. Attend a black tie event♥♥
  41. Go on a knock-the-door-run♥♥
  42. Donate an organ
  43. Try latte art
  44. Sit in your car with the windows down and drink your favorite drink and listen to your favorite music♥♥
  45. Make yourself a piñata and insert your favorite things
  46. Take a picture with a public figure♥♥
  47. Spend a few hours in your local library♥♥
  48. Turn the speed to max on a treadmill and try to run it.
  49. Rent a convertible for the day and drive through the city with the top down.
  50. Play pranks on people. ♥♥
  51. Drive through movie
  52. Naked yoga
  53. Join a flash mob
  54. Visit an abandoned castle♥♥
  55. Get something autographed by your favorite celebrity or person. ♥♥
  56. Have gender reveal party
  57. Become a residence at a hotel ♥♥
  58. Participate in a pageant
  59. Host a “dress like your partner” party
  60. Go bar hopping ♥♥
  61. Order breakfast in bed♥♥
  62. Flash someone ♥♥
  63. Pull all nighter ♥♥
  64. Gamble ♥♥
  65. Rob the cradle ♥♥
  66. Get dressed up and go nowhere ♥♥
  67. Have sex with the same sex